Home and family desires is more than empathy, sympathy, Ha and Loi has formal living home with a first wedding was held in March 2010. Their wedding is not too loud but also filled with joy and happy as any couples does, even though the bride and groom will know you are carrying the disease-century…

The tellings of the bride

If not introduce before, I can not think girl are healthy, beaming in front of you are disease-century. In the bride dresses, Tong Thi Ha, 27 age, In Pa Pe, Hung Thanh, Dien Bien district did not hide the thrill her husband before going home. She shared, both did not sleep the night before the wedding so crowed, partly because very nervous but probably still is fun when you get the biggest share the same feeling.

Since the early days of their disease detected century, Ha protection can not be forced to live up to today without sharing, encouragement of close friends and care, care of the family. Which student Provincial Medical College, Ha discovered her disease when participating in volunteer blood donors in 2004. Determine the cause of disease spread, Ha revealed very fankly when she was in love with a drug man. Ha said, then the family was all but perhaps prevent her love so she continues to love and lovers tried to help but did not detox. He also died in 2007 already. The deceased would not be much blame-ha thoughtful when talking about former lover and who has infected her. Most difficult to detect their disease at the right time going back to graduate school, ha thought I could not complete the program withought the encouragement of friends and family. There was a time to think about suicide but then the interest, encouragement and care of her parents made H think again.

After graduation, volunteered for Vietnam to wirk in a mountainous distrisct, home to more hundred kilometers. But then the nurse about the disease has spread throughout centuries the locality where the work of Ha. “At that time, everytime I go out as I were looking, doing so see  the thief. New salary out of school children was almost enough money for the trip home to visit last week, the remaining whole subsistence parents provide. Can not tolerate discrimination of people, I would have tried to move the work of a consultant in charge of the operation of the peer group at he centre for HIV/AIDS.

The first wedding of HIV in Dien Bien

Give me wedding pictures, ha breeze: groom-Luong Dinh Loi ward at Muong Thanh (Dien Bien Phu city) he very persistent and dertimined to pursue it has slowly been persuaded to go to marriage Ha. Ha said: “After determining the stance, not thinking about suicide again but never thinking about marriage.”

After moving the Center for HIV/ AIDS province, is finding a suitable job in part because the share received, the feeling of almost everyone to Ha. She actively participate in social activities, counseling, drug development for the same plight, active in the movement of body mass. And from here, when to take ARV drugs (drug treatment to slow the growth of the HIV virus) Loi was familiar Ha. Many times Loi intentionallysit down and and chat with Ha but thinking that both are not togetther. But the sincerity and determination, he has done Ha alluring. The couple’s wedding was held with the greeting, sharing the joy of the two families, colleagues, relatives and friends living in peer clubs. Witness the bride, groom exchange wedding rings to each other, many of friends similar circumstances and happy, just so respect.

Greatest motivation to go to to marriage of Loi and ha maybe is the desire to sympathize, and share home and family. This is the first public wedding of two people with HIV in Dien Bien. To look forward to sharing, understanding and no discrimination against people with HIV. And she is very hungry to be a mother. Still know two people with HIV is very difficult without the intervention of modern medical techniques with expensive cost, but Ha still hope compliance with treatment, dringking strict medication and the support of the project Prevention of HIV/AIDS from mother to child, will help her achieve desired.

Expected after the wedding, the couple will take care of family economic stability, encourage and care together. With knowledge in medicine, ha will be the best care for her husband. For stable family life ha continued her work at the Center for HIV/ AIDS, and Loi mechanical engineering, the couple plans to open small mechanical workshop for his failure to manage.

Conclusion

Psychology discrimination, shunning people with HIV is still very popular in society. That make people who have disease more difficult to integrate into the community, sometimes to put their negative mentality, any wedding needs…and two HIV patients rely on together, cover each other, is cause for us to think again, change perspectives, dealing with HIV…

According Hiv.com